What Have You Learned From Your Mother?

I asked each of my family members — including my parents – what they learned from their mother. I got answers from my Michael and my mom. I thought a little walk down memory lane might help inspire someone else to think about what they learned from their mothers today on Mother’s Day.

Mothers are the nurturers in the parental unit. They are the ones, whether they work inside the home or outside the home, that are credited with the physical well being of taking care of the children. Traditionally if a child is sick mom is the one taking care of him. They are the ones who generally take care of the home. Many mothers have the option of staying at home in order to make those jobs easier. But some must work outside the home because of financial reasons. While hugs and kisses are wonderful pay for a stay at home mom they don’t go very far in buying groceries. Those moms who have to work outside of the home really have TWO full time jobs and should be given credit for that.

Our mothers teach us how to take care of our homes by cooking, doing laundry, taking care of younger siblings – basically how to run a home. Someone needs to teach our young people that family is the most important part of our lives. Sadly when that doesn’t happen children grow up with the idea that they are not part of a family unit and spend a lot of time searching for a group to belong to which leads to trouble. I love to bond with my kids’ friends – especially those whose parents are absent in their lives or don’t have a loving home to feel safe in. Those are the ones that I’m drawn to. I want them to see what a loving family unit looks like and how it works. Mostly to see that “home” can be a safe, fun and loving place to be. That may be why the kids at school call me Mama Hunter. This is the mom’s “job” – to be the driving force in her children’s lives. Sometimes her children are not even children she puts to bed at night in her home.

Our mothers teach us how to love, interact with the opposite sex so when it’s time for us to search for a spouse we have learned what to look for, what to say, what to do. Their job is to raise children to be good citizens, Godly spouses and Godly parents. They teach us perseverance in life with love. We all need that lesson – continuing on with life when you want to just give up. There have been times when Michael and/or Lauren have wanted to quit something they have committed to whether it’s a sport or another organized group. We have refused to let them quit. I may have been killing myself running them here and there at all hours of any day or night. But that, too, was part of the lesson. I’m willing to do my part to make sure they keep their commitment.

Unconditional love…..that should be part of the Webster’s Dictionary under the word “Mother”. We all fail those we love at some time but a mom will always love us regardless of the poor choices we make. Our children say hurtful things to us, they take us for granted, they hurt us by disobeying us but in spite of all of those things we love them unconditionally. Children learn how to love others by watching the love they see in their homes. Mothers guide that lesson. They teach us how to be sympathetic to those who are hurting, how to empathize with those around them, how to reach out and befriend the friendless and how to help those who need an extra hand. But they must see all of those things from us. We are the nurturers. We teach them how to nurture others as they are growing up and someday how to nurture their families as well.

Mothers are a blessing and a necessary part of the home. God made us that way. We spend the rest of our lives living out the lessons we have learned from our mothers growing up. Today is a special day set aside just to honor and thank mothers. I hope that you tell your mom thank you for the things she’s done for you at times other than just mother’s day. I hope you say I love you every day. They give up a lot of themselves for their children. They spend a lot of their lives teaching lessons that they were created to teach. It’s our job to appreciate them and learn those lessons.

So, what lessons have you learned from your mother?

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4 thoughts on “What Have You Learned From Your Mother?

  1. What a beautiful post! You must have had a wonderful mother, lol.

    I have a lot of mixed emotions about my mother, mostly since I became chronically ill, eight years ago, and especially when I got Lupus, three years ago.

    I am no longer my mother’s perfect daughter, her joy, now I am her problem. It hurts a lot knowing this.

    I could go on and on but instead, because of my experience, I know that no matter what happens to my son that I will always love him. You can never imagine that mother/child bond until you become a mother.

    I have a lot of hardships in my life but my son is the reason I know God loves me. Although sometimes it is physically painful being his mom due to my illnesses, and my worries about my health and finances are X ten, I don’t regret for a single second having him.

    I can only hope that my beautiful son will continue to love me, no matter how sick I am or how much or how little I am able to give to him.

    My husband and I always tell him that the three of us are all best friends and he says the same. I hope he will always feel this way.

    • I can identify with everything you said…in a number of ways. 😥 The guilt and disappointment is just overwhelming sometimes. Ok, most of the time!

  2. From my mother I have learned that perfect is very over-rated and that it’s more important to enjoy life and have fun doing whatever it is you need to get done. Take a day off to shop, play, make memories. (I blogged about my mom and perfection not too long ago)

  3. Wow. So much. Some of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from my mom:

    *Looking on the sunny side of things is a great idea.
    *Books are a wonderful way to stay sane
    *You can have fun doing anything if you have the right attitude.

    This was a great post. I’m glad you linked it up. Thanks.

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